Friday, February 29, 2008

BFF - Friends Forever?

Do you have a soul mate? best friend? Which ever you call it..a person that you turn to whenever you're helpless . He washes away sorrows and aids pain, he would take care of the entire world of problems.

As we grow older, our priorities changes. Just like my dear friend; Handsome (he likes to claim himself that), last night he broke the news to me that he is getting married in 2009.

  • A friend that would cross boundaries. No matter where on earth, he would be on call to help. Let it be taking care of errand while I am not around, he'd even fly over to lend a shoulder when I am in despair.
  • A friend who is one call away. Anytime of the day, he would reach within 20 minutes whenever I ask for him unless he is in dreamland. 4 a.m., he would come help change my burst tires on the other end of where he lives.
  • A friend who would give knowing there will be no return for the past 11 years. We are a perfect example of 'platonic relationships'.

Well, I am an independent person but he is the only person I would happily trouble him anytime anywhere. Guess, we are just too close to talk bout formality or shy or awkward.
Will it ever be the same like we used to be? Unfortunately, it will never be like before. My 911 no is no longer active. shifted to another phase of lifeline called "married with family".

Handsome, I truthfully wish you all the best! No worries, I am very capable of taking care of myself.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

cannot remember the show starring camron diaz, think it's "my best friend's wedding"...if you really have feelings for this guy, express it, better late than never. good guys are not easy to come by.....if the feeling is not mutual, it's ok, at least you've made known your feelings....if the feelings are mutual..may be the start of a great relationship

kyanmay said...

haha, thanks but no thanks! handsome and i are a perfect example of platonic relationship. we are not attracted to each other in such way and both of us are very sure of it.